Reality is the entirety of objects, inferred space and inferred time.
Experience are the sensations of sight, sound, touch, smell, and taste, the processing of these sensations into coherent information as knowledge, and reaction to these sensations, including the sensations of mental processing, information and knowledge forming.
It is easy to understand what the sense inputs are as they have corresponding organs. But the mental organ was not understood until recently. Damage occurring to certain parts of the brain will affect different faculties. From such damage or aphasia we slowly have com to understand the role of the brain, noting that it is no different to the organs like the eyes or ears.
The brain with no noticeable moving parts like the other sense organs make it difficult to understand. Seemingly, it is inert. Yet this is where the faculty of mind and consciousness is. Damage the eye and your vision is impaired. Damage your leg and your ability to run is limited. Damage your brain and your ability to process the sensory information as well as your ability to respond to this information is affected.
Experience is the entirety of the physical input-processing-output process. There are no examples of mind or consciousness that is independent of the body or brain. We must take this lack of evidence seriously even if there is seemingly something we would like to call the mind or consciousness. The process of mind or consciousness occurs in the body. This is where we experience it, whether we are aware of this fact or not.
Calling it my mind does not bring it into existence. Calling it my consciousness does not bring it into existence. From experience, I had come to learn and understand this.